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you are beautiful :)
asked by Anonymous

Thank you dear! This is a really beautiful thing to wake up to :3 ♥ 

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do you spit or swallow?
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You arent the least bit curious?
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No, I’d rather not know 

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Have you asked Australian acquaintance why?
asked by Anonymous

Nope. Not a big deal anyway lol I just thought we could talk about politics, religion & other stuff sometimes, like we used to. I don’t even know what did I mess up and meh I’m pretty indifferent. 

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Why does it make you sad that someone you (One can only assume) don't know, deleted you
asked by Anonymous

I’m sensitive and I react like an idiot to stupid things/situations 

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Have you got fb?
asked by Anonymous

Yes but I only accept people whom I know personally, sorry xx  

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how do you handle dry spots in relationships? do you think people should break up when they no longer have strong feelings for each other?
asked by Anonymous

Hm. These are damn good questions, so thank you for forcing me to think about this haha.

I personally like to let my relationship flow, as well as the problems in it. Once in a while it’s good and healthy to have a serious conversation with your partner about the problems that you’re encountering from time to time. However, if that becomes a habit, and you find yourself getting… hm, kinda hungry for problems, then you’ve got an issue.
My advice for you is to talk about solving problems with your partner before you even start a serious relationship - simply make a “deal”. When you see that a specific situation might be a problem and might affect your relationship - talk to your partner about it, “look into” the possible problem, and solve it immediately. That way this problem won’t occur again.
But. If you don’t accept the possible presence of the problem and keep it to yourself - you’ll explode. You’ll become manipulative, envious, paranoid and so on. And it’s hard to cut down the root of a tree when it’s already enormous. Think about it - I think that this is how you should deal with problems in a relationship. My opinion, of course.

Anyway, about the breakup… I don’t even know how and under what circumstances that happens haha. How do you even break up ヾ(´・ ・`。)ノ” I think that you shouldn’t break up when you feel like the flame is over, because there’s still a tiny spark, and maybe it’s just temporary; maybe those feelings will restore their force?? I’m not sure because I’ve only had one breakup and it was like 3 years ago and it was dumb, plain and emotionless. So… yeah. You shouldn’t break up unless you’re sure that the power is over, that you don’t want to spend time with that person anymore and that you two don’t get along at all. Everything else is solvable.

And remember: love is like a zipper. When it gets damaged, you can fix it up, but the crack is still there and eventually it will get damaged again. This time, permanently. "Trust is like a mirror. You can fix it if it’s broken… but you can still see the crack in that motherfucking reflection."

xx

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hello i have really been wanting to tell u i have a love crush on u! if you want to know who i am message me on kik! kelseybose4
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do you think it's possible to fall in love again, after your first and only love
asked by Anonymous

I don’t know. My first and only love is currently happening to me so I can’t really say what happens when it’s over. But one I know for sure: time is one hell of a cure, for anything. (Ok not really anything but yeah.) But you shouldn’t search for love; it will come up to you when you’re ready. Listen to your intuition and don’t lose hope. :) xx

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Faerie
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Faerie: If you could get away with anything, what would you do?
Take my beloved one’s hand, pack my books and everything that makes me relaxed/content and go to Iceland.

x

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Open Coffins by Down

xx

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thank you so much! "self harm" would be best but if that's too much just "scars" or something should work too!
asked by Anonymous

Self harm it is! x

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whoah! please tag pictures like the one of the cuts, that's really triggering!
asked by Anonymous

Sure, I always do when people tell me which tag they’ve blacklisted. So, which tag have you blacklisted? :) 

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A little baby elephant stumbles in your ask box, holding a small letter in his mouth. He hands the note to you,”I love you. You are a wonderful, lovely person.” Pass it on to the first ten people on your dash anonymously.
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Thank youuuu this made my day <3 

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I remember loving your blog last year when I had the same kind but some time later you deleted your blog and now I saw your url on my dash and it made me smile. Have a gorgeous day! x
asked by Anonymous

Yeah, sometimes I truly miss my b&w blog and the vibe it had, but the change was needed I guess and I’m feeling much better now; I needed colours as much as colours needed me.

Thank you for messaging me, wish you all the luck in the world! xx

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